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11 July 2008
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well i went  to see the MS nurse,  at  3pm today.  was with her over an hour,  she  was  so helpful,  wants  me to  try  2  new tabets,to help the pain  and  make  my  nights  sleep better.       i  wake up after  3  hours,in a lot of pain         legs   very  bad.         also  my  ankle  is  playing  hell.            also  is sending me to a speech therapist to help with my  slurred  speech i get  sometimes   and  the swallowing  problems.       all in  all, very  helpful.      i  have  also    "volunterred"    somehow   lol     to  help a  new  chap  she  has  just  got. my age,just  diagnosed  and  having   trouble  coming  to terms  with  the idea.        know  that  feeling.   glad  to help if i can.  she is writing  to  my  GP    outlining  these  things,  and  to  get  him to  change  my  tablets. unfortunately  he is away for the  next  2 weeks          and  i see her  in  2  weeks  time  to see how i feel on them.         so  we  will see  there  what  happens.

as i have  written  before  mum has  a carer  come in every  day,tracey,   to  wash  her  and  help her  dress,30 minutes  every  morning,and  a  shower  once  a week.   all has  been well       mum  likes  her,until  this  past  2  to 3  weeks,she  has  been getting  to mine  at  6.50        whips   round  and  gone  by  7.10.       her  firm  is  putting  so  much  onto  her  she cant  get  round.   so  i have  not  been  to  happy.         now,unfortunately  mum  mentioned  this  to  my  friend  pam,when she  rang  mum last  friday.        even  more  unfortunate  pam  was             being  blunt         drunk.      she  drinks,a  lot.         doesn't  admit  it  mind.   nooo  not me  mort,   don't  drink.       now  normally  she  wouldn't  have  taken  any  notice  when  mum  said  about  Tracey.       shame   she  wasnt normal.           she  rang  traceys  boss.     her  friend  works  for  the  firm  tracey  works  for.           and  said  were  they  aware    tracey  wasnt  doing  her  job,   etc.          i  had  a  phonecall  from  the  boss,saying was  this  true?   i  said  ok,she  had  been   getting  here  early,and  leaving  before  time,but  mum liked  her           and  it  was the  firms  fault  she  had  to  rush  round.            anyway,        because  of  pams  interference         mum  now  has  only  15  minutes  every  morning,with  30  minutes  on  a  thursday   for  shower.        boss  said  as  she was   getting  done  in that  time,  that  was  all  that  was  needed.             i  was  furious.        anyway,when  tracey  came  monday  i  explained.                    then  went  over  to pams.                  and  told  her  in  future  to  mind  own  business.            i  am  writing  to  social  worker,   and  complain  about  mum  losing  15  minutes.  it  was  social  worker  who  decided  on  the  30  minutes,   and  they  are  now  paying  for  30  instead  of  15.   see  what happens.          i  do  wish  pam  stopped drinking.           

lastly  a  few  pictures.        these  show  the  baskets  and  tomatoes         they have  grown  so much.

take  your  pick        lol   first should  be  ready by the  weekend

take care  all       



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  • #19 Comment from rjsisti 
    28/07/08 23:35 Permalink
    You plants look beautiful.

    Hugs, Rose

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  • #18 Comment from jacsher 
    19/07/08 13:45 Permalink
    Just stopped by to say hello.  Hope Mum is doing well.
    You also of course.   Jack
  • #17 Comment from jeanno43 
    19/07/08 11:23 Permalink
    Just popping by again to say I hope you have a happy weekend and that the weather is better for you than it is here.

    http://journals.aol.co.uk/jeanno43/JeannettesJottings/
  • #16 Comment from ninareade 
    17/07/08 13:12 Permalink
    Aww Mort, Pam was only sticking her beak in because she cares, Hope the new pills work, I was going to come over this afternoon but got to Aylsham Hospital in the pouring rain, and because they have shut the slip road to Holt would have meant coming back to Hevingham before I could get on your road, by which time I was almost home.  I promise i will blog today and let you catch up, the blog will tell all xxxx nina
  • #15 Comment from helmswondermom 
    16/07/08 03:11 Permalink
    I hope you can get that straightened out with the social worker and get the caregiver back to 30 minutes with your mom.  And I hope that the new tablets you're taking help with that pain.  One of my sisters is a speech pathologist.  I hope that the therapy helps you with the speech and with the swallowing.
    Lori
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