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Postscript From Mrs. Boss
Mike and I were both brought up with dogs from a very young age. I remember my parents dogs, from the age of three and even recall their names, Dinah and Midge. There has never been a time in my life so far that I have been without a dog and usually two, so dogs have been such a big part of my life for close on sixty years. They have all been characters and individuals in their own right and I recall them all with affection.
Once in every pet owner's life, there comes a special animal, one that for some reason or another stands out from all the others. That indefinable something you cannot exactly put your finger on. An affinity that you have not experienced with any other animal. It is a true blessing. Pip was that dog for us. He took hold of our hearts and never let go. There was something about him that endeared him not only to us but to so many other people. After we lost Pip, it was so hard for Mike to take Jesse out alone and to be asked by so many where Pip was. Other pet owners he meets regularly at the fields, cried for Pip, they loved him as well. Total strangers have stopped Mike in the street and asked him where the other beautiful dog is. We had condolence cards from people. Pip touched so many lives.
Just the other day a person came up to Mike and said he just had to ask. He had always seen Mike around and thought of him as "the man with two dogs". He had tears in his eyes when Mike told him.
Pip is back with us . We have his ashes in a beautiful box and we will not be parted again. When our time comes, Becky has instructions that he is to go with us.
We have Jack now. We love him but in a different way. He has made us smile again. Tomorrow he will take his first walk outside. Jack, we hope, will be a lovely dog. He has a lot to learn as all puppies do. He will be his own dog, we will love him for his own special ways but he is not Pip and never could be. He would have to be a truly remarkable dog to compare to Pip.
Mike and I know that Pip would be pleased for us. He would not be jealous. Pip loved all other animals including our rabbits which he felt it was his duty to protect. He would lie for hours in the garden guarding their pen when they were outside. His heart was as big as he was.
I have tried to see the world through his eyes, to speak as if he could have spoken. His story was not easy for me to write especially, as you will all understand, the final chapter. It is a terrible decision to have to make, many of you will have been there, but it is the last act of true love that we can do for our animal companions. For selfish reasons we do not want to let them go. It is being unselfish and doing what is best for your pet that makes a good and responsible owner, however hard that might be, however much it tears you apart. True love sometimes means having to let go.
Pip will always be in our hearts and in our minds. He has left us with precious memories. The house still feels empty without him. Opening the biscuit tin, however, quietly you tried to do it, always brought Pip running. The ringing of the phone which he always thought was for him had the same effect. So many of his ways that we miss so much.
In writing his story I have shared with you the happy and the sad, the ups and the downs. I like to think that if he could have understood such things, he would have approved of "his" story.
I hope I have done him justice.
Goodnight, sweet prince.
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I think you should surely get this printed it well deserves to be read as a book.It was a wonderful read Jeannette,and you are such a talented writer.Thankyou for sharing this story it was wonderful.Take Care.
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This is possibly the most moving blog I have read so far. Thank you.
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Thank you for sharing your story. We too have lost dogs that we have loved so very much and who have been very much part of our lives. We recently lost Patch. He was a jack russell of 161/2 who we had kept after two of our dogs got together. Like you we were so very sad but we too now have Patch's ashes back with us. I tried for a couple of weeks to be without a dog but the house was so quiet, the children all now having left home. The happy ending to our story is that we got in touch with various dog rescue homes and we now have a lovely 2 year old yorkie named Benji. He has helped to bring the sparkle back into our lives. We have not got him to replace Patch, because no dog could ever do that, but just to help us enjoy life again and hopefully we are providing a good home for a little dog whose owners had to get rid of him.
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What a lovely tribute to you dog.
I can empathize with you about your dog. Our dog Pippa had to be put to sleep 1 year after my fathers death. It was indeed devestating, and such an emotional wrench. Like you I wrote a tribute to my dog which I have on disk. However I do think that you have done your Pip proud with your tribute. We should always remember they will always be in our hearts.
18/05/08 00:29
Kimmy has been a lovely girl we rescued her from a horrible life when she was just 7 minths old, she is now 12 yrs old and she has given us so much pleasure and fun!!
our other dog is bud and he is 13 yrs his poor back legs have started shaking a lot especially after walks!!! im so sad that dogs live such a short life compared to us !! our dogs hav given us all the love in the world and we are lucky to hav had them.
your story as seen through a dogs eyes has made the difficult decision i have to make this coming week a bit less painful thankyou for that!!!
border collies are the most beautiful and bright dogs ever !! luv from jo xxx